Strap On for Men

Male Strap-Ons: Types and Functions

Male strap-ons have grown way beyond the reach and influence of their original role as toys made just for women. These versatile devices serve multiple functions and come in various designs that work well with men's bodies and sexual needs.

What is a strap-on for men?

A male strap-on works as a wearable dildo that attaches to the body with a harness system. It stands out from standard strap-ons because of its special design for male anatomy. The most popular type—hollow strap-ons—has a cavity where a penis fits inside. This cavity works like an extension sleeve attached to a harness.

The simple setup has three main parts: a harness that wraps around the waist, the dildo, and an O-ring that keeps everything in place. Harness materials include leather, nylon, PVC, cotton, or linen, with straps you can adjust for a secure fit. This design lets you use it hands-free while staying stable during activity.

These devices are a great way to get help for men with erectile challenges since they work without needing an erection. Some models use clear materials so you can see the natural penis inside. Many users say this helps them feel more connected during intimate moments.

Different types of male strap-ons

The market has several special varieties that match different needs and priorities:

• Hollow strap-ons: These are the most common type, with a hollow chamber where the penis fits inside. They started as solutions for men with erectile dysfunction and became popular for size enhancement too.

• Vibrating hollow strap-ons: These have built-in vibration mechanisms that stimulate both partners at once, adding more excitement to the experience.

• Double-penetration strap-ons: These come with dual dildos in different setups—either two outward-facing penetrators or designs that let both partners feel stimulation.

• Pegging strap-ons: These smaller toys work specifically for anal play. They can stimulate the prostate and come in various shapes that work well for beginners.

• Extra-large models: These focus on size enhancement while keeping both partners comfortable.

• Ejaculating hollow strap-ons: You can fill these with body-safe fluids to create a realistic ejaculation experience.

Some designs let you switch out the dildo while others keep the harness permanently fixed to the penetrator. Harnesses usually come in three main styles: jockstrap (with straps around the waist and over each buttock), thong-style (with one strap between the legs), or underwear-style that looks like boxers or briefs.

Common uses and benefits

Male strap-ons do more than help with erectile dysfunction - they improve intimate experiences in many ways. They help men with ED stay sexually active despite physical limits. They also boost confidence by letting users experience having a larger, firmer, or differently shaped penetrator.

Users can extend sexual sessions without worrying about recovery time since the device stays firm throughout. This helps men who deal with premature ejaculation or want to please their partner after reaching their own climax.

These devices open up new possibilities for power dynamics and creative play. Some people use strap-ons to explore gender expression. Couples interested in double penetration find these tools helpful when they don't want to involve another person.

Some designs have special curves that target G-spot or prostate stimulation, which can lead to stronger orgasms for the receiving partner. People who worry about performance often feel more relaxed using a strap-on since there's no pressure to keep an erection.

The mental benefits matter too. Many users like seeing their penis through clear hollow strap-ons because it helps them feel more connected to the experience instead of using a separate tool. This visual connection especially helps rebuild confidence for those with erectile challenges.

Male strap-ons give users flexibility, variety, and solutions to common intimate challenges. They also create opportunities for new experiences that might not be possible otherwise.

Hollow Strap-Ons for ED: Features and Benefits

Hollow strap-ons are changing the game for men with erectile dysfunction. These devices give functional support and boost pleasure possibilities. Unlike standard strap-ons, they have a special design that focuses on male anatomy needs.

How hollow strap-ons work

The flaccid or semi-erect penis fits inside a cylindrical chamber. A harness wraps around the waist and thighs to create a stable platform for natural thrusting motions. These devices are innovative because they transfer the wearer's movements directly to their partner. The thrusting motion flows through the device like a natural body extension.

Your penis sits inside the hollow core when fitted properly. The entire apparatus moves with you as you thrust. This lets men with ED have penetrative sex without needing a full erection. The hollow interior works with different firmness levels while keeping the exterior rigid throughout.

The psychological benefits are just as valuable as the physical ones. Men can please their partners despite erectile challenges. This helps rebuild confidence and keeps intimacy alive that ED might otherwise affect.

Size and fit considerations

Getting the perfect fit means knowing both internal and external dimensions. The internal chamber should fit your penis comfortably - not too loose or tight. Most quality hollow strap-ons have internal measurements between 1-1.5 inches in diameter, though some models are larger.

The external length usually runs 6-9 inches, with different girths to match you and your partner's comfort level. Here's what to think about when picking a size:

• Internal diameter - Should let you insert comfortably without pinching
• External length - Based on both partners' comfort levels
• Base width - Must fit the harness correctly (usually 3-3.25 inches wide)
• Harness fit - Know your waist and thigh measurements for proper support

A well-fitting harness is vital - a loose one creates a "floppy friend" that makes positioning and rhythm tough. Quality harnesses typically fit waist sizes from 28-44 inches, with special options for larger bodies.

Measure your hips where the harness will sit with a flexible tape measure. This simple step saves you from buying a device that doesn't fit right. A snug, secure fit gives you better control and more natural movements.

Material options for comfort

Your choice of material affects both comfort and sensation substantially. Here are the main options:

Silicone is the top choice for hollow strap-ons. It's great for sensitive skin and quickly matches body temperature. Silicone gives you that perfect mix of firmness and flexibility that feels natural. It's worth mentioning that silicone-based lubes can damage silicone toys.

TPE (Thermoplastic Elastomer) costs less but still offers good flexibility and softness. These materials feel more natural than firmer options but might not last as long. TPE needs thorough cleaning after each use because it's more porous than silicone.

PVC/Vinyl makes firmer devices that keep their shape during use. These clean easily and cost less but don't feel as natural. Some people find PVC too rigid to wear comfortably for long periods.

Neoprene and nylon harnesses keep you comfortable and are easy to wash. These materials pull moisture away from your skin to prevent chafing during long sessions. Leather harnesses last longer and often come with lifetime warranties, though they cost more.

Everyone has different comfort priorities. The best strap on for men with ED depends on your needs, your partner's preferences, and how you plan to use it.

Measuring for the Perfect Fit: Size Guide

Getting the right strap-on fit starts with good measurements. Just like well-fitted clothes feel better, a strap-on that fits properly gives you physical comfort and mental confidence. Good measurements help avoid frustration and make things more enjoyable for both partners.

Taking accurate measurements

You'll need a few basic tools to measure correctly. Before you shop for your male strap on, grab:

• A flexible measuring tape
• A ruler or caliper
• String (if you don't have a flexible tape)
• Paper to record measurements

The harness size depends on your waist measurement where you'll wear it - usually around your hips, not the skinny part of your waist. Most adjustable harnesses fit waist sizes from 28-44 inches, which makes them work well for different body types. Underwear-style harnesses match regular clothing sizes but need exact measurements since you can't adjust them as much.

Your thigh measurement matters where the straps will sit. A tight fit means steady pleasure and stops the "floppy friend" problem you get with loose harnesses. One expert puts it well: "You want your harness to fit you like a pair of jeans you'd wear to the club when you want someone to really check you out: It needs to be snug."

Hollow strap-ons need exact penis measurements. With an erection (if possible), measure both length and around:

1. Length: Put the ruler at your shaft's base, press slightly into the pubic bone, then measure to the tip
2. Around/Girth: Wrap string or measuring tape around the thickest part of your shaft, mark and measure

You'll need to know the diameter to match hollow canal specs - just divide your around measurement by 3.14. This tells you if your penis will fit nicely in the hollow part.

Understanding internal and external dimensions

Hollow strap-ons have four key measurements you should know:

Total length means the whole device from base to tip. Insertable length shows how much of the toy works for penetration. This difference matters because harnesses usually take up ½"-1½" at the toy's base.

Internal diameter shows if your penis fits comfortably inside the hollow part. Too tight hurts; too loose means slipping and less feeling. Quality hollow strap-ons usually have internal diameters between 1-1.5 inches, which works for many penis sizes.

External diameter (or circumference) affects your partner's comfort. Pick sizes that match your partner's comfort level—this really matters for anal play, which usually needs smaller sizes.

O-ring size is another vital measurement. These rings hold the dildo to the harness and come in standard sizes (usually 1¼", 1½", and 2"). Your dildo's base size tells you which O-ring you need. Some harnesses let you switch O-rings, so you can use different dildos.

Avoiding common sizing mistakes

People often buy hollow strap-ons with internal spaces too small to wear comfortably. Always check your measurements against the internal dimensions in product descriptions.

Many users place their harness too low, which reduces control and feeling. The best spot is the plushest part of your tummy—halfway between your pubic mound and belly button. This gives great control without losing insertable length.

Not thinking about how measurements work together leads to problems. If you want a strap on for guys meant for anal play, both internal and external measurements count - you need to feel comfortable and your partner needs the right size.

Many forget how harnesses change usable length. The harness and O-ring setup usually takes away up to 1½ inches. For anal penetration, this means picking a toy at least 6 inches long to have enough insertable length after the harness takes its share.

Taking time to measure right and knowing what works for you and your partner helps you pick the best strap on for men that feels good and stays stable for everyone involved.

Harness Styles and Support Systems

The right harness will set the foundation for your strap-on experience. After getting your measurements right, you'll need to pick from different harness styles available for male strap-ons. Your body type, comfort priorities, and how you plan to use it will help determine which design works best.

Traditional strap harnesses

Traditional strap harnesses come in two main styles: jockstrap and G-string. The jockstrap style has three adjustable straps—one around the waist and two that wrap around each leg. This design gives you better stability and control, making it perfect if you want something sturdy.

Sex educators say jockstrap harnesses give you the most secure fit. You'll have better control over the dildo's movements. The design helps transfer your body motion to the dildo naturally, which both partners will appreciate. Most jockstrap harnesses work with waist sizes from 28-44 inches, so they fit many body types.

The G-string style harness is different. It has two straps—one around the waist and another between the legs. You'll feel the dildo's weight and movement more closely with this style, but it's not as stable during active use. One expert points out, "G-string harnesses can be adjusted to fit your body, but they don't offer the same level of stability as jockstrap harnesses".

Traditional harnesses come in these materials:

• Leather (tough but needs special care)
• Nylon (easy to wash and light)
• Neoprene (comfy and wicks away moisture)
• PVC/Vinyl (simple to clean but might not feel as nice)

Underwear-style harnesses

Underwear-style harnesses are becoming more popular among people who want comfort or a natural feel. These look just like regular underwear—from boxers and briefs to feminine options with lace or ribbons. They started as a comfort-focused option but now work for various gender expressions.

These harnesses have a built-in O-ring to hold the dildo. Unlike traditional styles, most underwear harnesses can't be adjusted, so getting the right size matters. Experts suggest buying these slightly smaller than your usual size to keep the dildo secure.

Men dealing with gender dysphoria often choose underwear-style harnesses. The extra coverage makes the dildo feel more like a natural part of their body. New users like these styles because they're familiar and simpler than strap systems.

Specialized harnesses for different body types

Harness makers now cater to bodies of all sizes and specific needs. Larger bodies benefit from wide-backed or corset-style harnesses that add back support and stability. The Spareparts Joque harness shows this well with its adjustable waist and thigh straps that fit various body shapes.

Men with physical limitations might find thigh harnesses helpful. These work great if you have lower back pain or hip issues since they spread pressure differently than waist-mounted systems.

Trans men and transmasculine individuals can find harnesses made just for packing and play. These special systems often have extra pockets for both a soft daily packer and a firmer dildo for intimate moments.

Your specific needs, comfort priorities, and planned use will guide your choice between harness styles. Traditional harnesses give you more control, while underwear styles focus on comfort and natural feel. If you have special needs, purpose-designed options will ensure both comfort and function.

Material Matters: Comfort, Safety, and Sensation

The right material makes all the difference in a satisfying strap-on experience. The material that touches your skin—and your partner's—ends up determining comfort, safety, and how it feels for both of you. Even the perfect size won't help if it's made from the wrong stuff.

Silicone vs. TPE vs. PVC

Each material has its own benefits for male strap-ons. They differ quite a bit in how they work and how safe they are.

Silicone is the top choice for quality strap-ons. Medical-grade silicone doesn't have any pores, which means bacteria can't get inside it. You can sterilize it completely. It works great for sensitive skin and reduces the chance of reactions. The material gets warm fast and stays body temperature. Many people like its smooth, velvety feel. A good silicone strap on for men can last forever if you take care of it properly, which makes the higher price worth it.

TPE (Thermoplastic Elastomer) sits right in the middle. This mix of rubber and plastic feels soft and stretchy, more like the real thing than harder materials. TPE can stretch up to 600%, so it's really comfortable for everyone involved. In spite of that, TPE has some big drawbacks—bacteria can hide in its pores even after cleaning. That's why you should use condoms with TPE toys, especially if you share them.

PVC/Vinyl costs less but comes with some trade-offs. These firmer materials keep their shape while you use them and clean up easily. The downside is that PVC doesn't feel as natural against your skin and might contain chemicals that aren't safe for regular use.

Here's something to remember: don't use silicone-based lubes with silicone toys because they can damage the material. Water-based lubes work fine with everything.

Hypoallergenic options

Material choice becomes extra important if you have sensitive skin or allergies. About 25% of people in western countries have some kind of allergy, so hypoallergenic options are a must for many users.

100% pure silicone leads the pack for hypoallergenic toys. It doesn't have latex, BPA, or phthalates, so it rarely causes allergic reactions. Medical-grade silicone goes through lots of testing to make sure it's safe.

Hypoallergenic leather alternatives are now available for harnesses. Materials like "Pro Skin" leather coatings feel good on sensitive skin and last long. They resist water too. These special treatments prevent reactions that regular leather chemicals might cause.

Stainless steel and borosilicate glass work great for super sensitive people, but they're too rigid for most male strap-on designs. These materials won't cause any reactions and let you play with temperature.

Stay away from rubber, PVC, and "jelly" materials if you have sensitive skin. They often contain phthalates that can make you itch, burn, or get a rash.

Firmness and flexibility factors

Finding the sweet spot between firm and flexible makes a huge difference in comfort and feeling. Too hard, and the strap on for guys might hurt; too soft, and it won't work right.

Firmness considerations:

• Soft materials (Shore A hardness 00-50) feel more realistic but might need to be thicker to work properly
• Medium firmness (Shore A 60-70) gives you the best of both worlds
• Firm materials (Shore A 80+) let you control everything but don't feel as natural

Hollow strap-ons need different firmness levels inside and out. The inside should be softer and more flexible to fit comfortably, while the outside needs to be firm enough to keep its shape during use.

The way materials react to temperature adds to the experience. Silicone gets warm quickly, making everything feel more natural than materials that stay cool.

The best strap on for men needs to work well and feel good. Premium silicone gives you everything you need—it's safe for your body, lasts long, and feels just right with its perfect mix of firmness and flex.

First-Time User Guide: Preparation and Application

A male strap on doesn't need to feel scary or uncomfortable your first time. Good preparation builds confidence and comfort that will give a more satisfying experience for both partners.

Setting realistic expectations

New users should know that becoming skilled at using a strap on takes practice. Moving around your house while wearing your new hollow strap on helps you feel more at ease with it. "Put it on, stand in the mirror, and move your hips. Do some squats, lunges, or toe-touches," advises one certified sex educator. These movements help you understand how the harness works with your body. You'll also spot any uncomfortable pinching or positioning issues that might show up later.

Your first session should focus on exploration rather than performance. The learning process comes naturally—many experienced users need several sessions to feel completely comfortable. Both partners should keep talking throughout the process to stay comfortable and involved.

Proper lubrication techniques

Proper lubrication is crucial when using a hollow strap on for men. One expert puts it simply: "lube, lube, lube!" You should apply plenty both inside the hollow cavity (where your penis sits) and on the external shaft. Experts suggest these tips for hollow strap-ons:

• Apply lubricant to your penis and the inner canal to avoid uncomfortable friction
• Use water-based lubricant since it works with most materials (silicone lube damages silicone toys)
• Add more throughout your session as needed—if unsure, use extra

"You can never use too much lube," as one product guide emphasizes. Even with vaginal penetration's natural lubrication, extra lube improves comfort and pleasure for both partners.

Putting it on correctly

The best strap on for men needs proper application. Here's how:

1. Start by attaching the dildo to the harness—slip it through the O-ring before putting the harness on
2. Step into your harness like underwear and position it against your hips
3. Make all straps snug and secure to prevent movement during use
4. Put plenty of lubricant on your penis and the inner canal
5. Insert your penis into the hollow chamber (semi-erect might work better depending on flexibility)
6. Add lots of lubrication to the external shaft
7. Guide the dildo during initial penetration for better control

Your partner's visual cues become extra important with hollow strap-ons since you won't feel the same physical sensations as unassisted penetration.

Advanced Features Worth Considering

Simple functionality is just the start. Modern male strap on devices come with sophisticated features that improve pleasure and realism. Your intimate experiences can reach new heights once you become skilled at the fundamentals.

Vibration functions

Today's vibrating strap-ons come with multiple stimulation patterns designed for mutual enjoyment. Premium models feature dual motors that work together - one gives pleasure to the wearer while the other focuses on the receiver. These vibrating functions include:

• 7-10 unique vibration patterns with variable speed settings
• Remote control capabilities that allow hands-free adjustment
• USB rechargeable batteries that run longer

The 28X model delivers 28 different vibration combinations. Some designs add vibration elements that target the clitoris with independent functioning patterns. Hollow strap-ons transmit these vibrations through both the inner cavity and external shaft, which creates simultaneous stimulation for both partners.

Realistic detailing

Premium strap-ons now feature lifelike characteristics. The anatomically accurate designs showcase pronounced veins, wrinkled testicles, and defined glans. These texture elements improve both visual appeal and physical sensation during use.

Pipedream's model shows this attention to detail with lifelike veins and bumps that increase stimulation. Some advanced models use temperature-responsive materials that quickly warm to body temperature. Silicone provides durability, while TPE gives a more naturalistic feel but needs more thorough cleaning.

Specialized shapes for targeted pleasure

The ergonomic contours target specific pleasure zones effectively. Starlette's model features a curved shaft with a bulbous head engineered specifically for G-spot stimulation. Sunset's model uses a carefully crafted 5-inch shaft that intensifies targeted stimulation.

Sensual Helix brings another advancement with its spiral texture that provides varied sensory experiences during penetration. These specialized shapes match different priorities - from beginners who need gentler entry to experienced users looking for intense stimulation.

ComfortLux's harness adds value with ultra-soft, breathable material that adapts to the wearer's body and reduces discomfort during long sessions.

Maintenance and Care for Longevity

Your investment in a male strap-on will last longer with proper maintenance that ensures safe and hygienic enjoyment. These devices need specific care based on their materials, just like any other intimate product.

Cleaning protocols for different materials

Regular cleaning after each use stops bacteria from building up and causing infections or skin irritation. Quality devices often use silicone, which you can clean with warm water and mild soap or a specialized toy cleaner. Non-porous materials like silicone, glass, and stainless steel become fully sanitized after boiling for three minutes. You can also run them through your dishwasher's sanitize cycle without detergent.

TPE, jelly rubber, and PVC materials need different care since they are porous. You cannot fully sterilize these materials, so they work better for solo play or with condoms. Clean them using room temperature water and a soapy washcloth because hot water might damage them.

Leather harnesses need special attention - don't put them in water. A damp, soapy cloth works best for spot cleaning, and storage should be in a cool, dry place. Most nylon harnesses can go in the washing machine on gentle cycles.

Storage solutions

Smart storage keeps your male strap-on clean between uses and prevents material breakdown. Each toy should stay in its own breathable fabric bag rather than plastic, which traps moisture and leads to mildew.

Keep silicone toys separate because they can stick together permanently over time. Hollow strap-ons need complete drying inside before storage to prevent bacteria growth.

Premium storage options include antimicrobial bags, UV sanitizing cases, or lockable boxes. These options work great for travel or shared living spaces.

When to replace your strap-on

Quality male strap-ons show clear signs when they need replacement. Look for cracks, tears, or peeling that could hide bacteria. Material breakdown appears as discoloration, strong odors, or sticky texture. Replace your harness if it stretches too much or shows frayed stitching.

Quality silicone toys last several years with good care, but all materials eventually wear out. Replace your device if you can't clean it properly anymore or it starts irritating your skin.

 

Picking the right male strap-on just needs you to think over measurements, materials, and priorities. My experience with these devices shows that success comes from knowing your specific needs and really researching your options. Most users get the best comfort, durability, and satisfaction from quality silicone models paired with well-fitted harnesses.

New buyers should focus on proper sizing rather than impressive dimensions. Medium-sized devices with premium materials work better than larger, cheaper options. Premium silicone strap-ons might cost more at first, but their durability and body-safe properties make them smart investments.

A good hollow strap-on can revolutionize intimate experiences, whether you're dealing with ED challenges or learning new possibilities. Users become skilled at these devices through patient practice and open talks with their partners. Your chosen device stays safe and functional for years when you clean and store it properly.