Health & Safety Guide

These pages are a continuing work in progress and offer different points of view regarding the many issues surrounding the use of butt toys and butt play in general. Many of you have been asking over the years for advice and asking about resource material. The information within these pages is a response to that. This is only intended to inform and should not ever be considered instructions for what you should do specifically. I am not a medical professional, but I do have over 30 years of healthy ass play experience.  Only you know where you are on your journey and what you are capable of. Your physiology is unique to you, you just have to find out what pushes your buttons in a safe and fun manner.


All of the information contained on these pages will be greatly benefited by how well you are in tune with your body and how well you are able to put your mind at ease and focus on your play. To speak from a personal perspective, I have always felt that large dildo play and fisting was a lot like a meditative experience, noticing that my best play sessions came when I was most in tune with my Self ( and partner if fisting ) and able to focus clearly. Anything that could cloud my mind ( most drugs ) or disrupt my body’s own rhythm ( quick fix remedies ) more often than not got in the way of a good time.

Extreme Sport

You should regard playing with large dildos and fisting as an Extreme Sport and as such, being well informed and following certain guidelines will help to minimize the risks. Having the right equipment at hand is also important, as is working within a certain set of guidelines to help ensure safety. As with any extreme sport, risk of personal injury always exists, but by taking the necessary precautions we can hope to minimize the risk to an acceptable level. Accidents can and do happen. Not pushing your body beyond what it is capable of at that moment, or, your timely reaction to injury were it to occur could greatly minimize your level of risk and even save your life someday.


I have not intentionally published copyrighted information, providing links to its home on the web instead wherever possible, but if I have inadvertently done so, please let me know. Some of what is presented here was found in the correspondence of list groups and much of what is found here is a collection of information I have heard shared between friends and play buddies peppered with my own personal experiences. All of what is here is presented in the spirit of community, sharing and the well being of us all. Do not view this a prescription for, nor a guarantee of, injury free play. In the case of direct contributions I have left out names for reasons of protecting anonymity.